Ideal Woman

Alright alright, I know nothing is perfect in the world and I'm not a perfectionist as well. Well, I always figure the picture of an ideal woman and wish I can be like that in the future.

A real ideal woman in my mind should be one with positive mindset. She should be able to stand up again after every single fall instead of just keep crying at the same spot without doing anything else. Be tough but not rude is another important ability a ideal woman should have. Talking with all rude words like men does not bring any cool impression actually and reproach one at the public is the most stupid action of a woman as well. A tough woman should be the one who welcome the sunrise with her best smile in the morning even she has cried herself to sleep last night.

Work is something common in this century for women. Believe me, a working woman is more attractive than those in the house. However, I don't think I gotta be super outstanding than the men in my industry to be attractive. The charm of a ideal woman should be the habits built since her childhood. The positive attitude during the working hours and the sporting characteristic in social life. I might feel not to help everyone of them who request for my assistance, but definitely not to make things worse.

A great woman should be one loving the nature. The world is too beautiful to explore and too much knowledge to learn. Take deep breathe and walk through the rainforest does not sound bore compared to shopping in the mall I think. Ideal woman should be willing to walk and continue her journey even if she can not drive. Walking slow along the road is always the best way to see the world and to think about life. A ideal woman should learn to appreciate every creature on the earth.

I always imagine what kind of wife I will be in the future. Hopefully, I can be a gentle wife who can help my husband in every aspect, family nor work, neither. I have a weird characteristic as I like to study the nutrients of foods. I always tell my friends the functions of the foods they ate and the consequences of excessive dosage and deficiency of that particular nutrient. Probably, I'll make many dishes for my husband and kids as I always feel that is the most happy thing watching the love ones eating. There is one more thing I think a good wife should know is the massage skill. Massaging the head, neck and shoulder of your soul mate after his rough working days is a powerful catalyst.

A perfect woman should have a true heart. A kind heart which is willing to trust and a sincere heart to love. Everyone should be fair to gain your trust before you find they hurt you. Doubting and frequent suspect is tiring as I think life is short and no point to torture myself with the fault of others. Being an understanding individual is another big trait of a perfect woman. Putting ourselves in others' shoes does not sound difficult actually if you willing to sacrifice the selfishness. Real woman should be able to love again even they have been hurt and had a very hard time. A woman without the ability to love and the passion to live is like a wilt rose no matter how much make up you can put on.

Life is wonderful even we have hard time, love is fearless even we shed tears.

Love life, the sign of heartbeats.

I pray to God, grant me power and wisdom to be the ideal woman in my mind.





With Love,
Jessie